Keep it easy to join
Bachelorette groups are usually balancing travel, dinner reservations, photos, and a night out. The tasting should be easy to arrive at and easy to leave on time.
A private room, apartment setup, or compact venue format can work if transportation and timing are clear.
Choose an approachable theme
Sparkling wine, rose, old-world versus new-world, and wine-and-cheese pairings are strong choices for mixed groups.
Avoid overly technical flights unless the group specifically wants a class.
Scope the host role
The sommelier should create energy without taking over the party.
Ask for the tone you want: polished, playful, relaxed, or educational.